First of all, you may have noticed the new blog design! I hope you all like it! After not acceping sponsorships for awhile, I am now going to accept them again so check out this page to sign on up! Now onto the post...
! Recently I guess you can say that I had a breakthrough in life. I have decided to be more positive. I want to take out all my negative thoughts and become more of an optimist. This is not going to be easy considering I've been a pessimist for so darn long, but I'm determined and I'm ready and excited. I want to try and make this blog even more positive and inspiring!
! Recently I guess you can say that I had a breakthrough in life. I have decided to be more positive. I want to take out all my negative thoughts and become more of an optimist. This is not going to be easy considering I've been a pessimist for so darn long, but I'm determined and I'm ready and excited. I want to try and make this blog even more positive and inspiring!
waffles// flowers// breakfast// kit kats
Steps to be positive:
-Watch less ID and more funny shows!
-Read more books. They make me happy.
-Less time on the computer.
-More time with husband and daughter.
-Focus on starting up something exciting (can't tell you yet!)
-Smile more
-List what I'm grateful for each day.
-Think of things that make me happy like going to the beach with my family or spending time with my family.
cozy with a drink// pretty clothes// supernatural// pretty little liars
Has anyone gone through this before changing from negative to positive? OR even if you're just a positive person, any tips for me?
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24 comments:
i think it's cyclical... i always go through ups and downs. and i think taking the step of knowing that you must go from negative to positive is a grand step in the right direction!
brooke! yay go you :) i love the new layout! you are so talented and beautiful and now optimistic (although you had me fooled- i always was like dang brooke is so happy all the time!) hahah :)
YEAH! You will feel so much better if you focus on the positives in life! I guess I have a hard time feeling negative when I see people all around the world that are struggling in so many different ways. I just try to do what you said: focus on my blessings and ENJOY my time! Start by doing things that make you happy!! And when a negative thought starts creeping in, let it roll right off your back. True, life isn't always sunshine & rainbows, but your outlook has a whole lot to do with the happiness you embrace. :) You can CHOOSE to be optimistic, no matter what life throws your way.
p.s. love the new layout, and your picture over on the right...it reminds me so much of your pretty Little One. :)
LOVE the new blog design! So soft and feminine.
Focusing on the positves in life is so important!! My life has totally transformed after reading ''law of attraction and ''the power of now'' If you haven't already read them you must!
You have sooo much to be greatful for in your life sweetie.
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Your layouts are always so adorable. <3 I feel you on being positive, that was one of new year's resolutions. It's definitely a work in progress. Have you read "The Happiness Project? I think you might enjoy it :)
i like the design. it think it's very you. i love the outer background color as well. it makes me feel refresh.
i've been thorugh all ups and downs, but in my case the first thing i have to do to be more positive is waving a white flag with myself first. stop blaming myself for what happens and forgiving myself. when i make peace with myself i can think clearly and see things differently, and know that whatever unfortunate events that happens is because God wants me to learn a thing or two. not because i'm a bad person ;p
i told you what im starting up..now you have to tell me..its only fair..just sayin :)
love you dear friend! you are amazing!
love the new design, girl!
And way to go on being positive! I've also found that spending less time with negative people helps me. I know I have some pretty negative friends in my life, and while I love them, they sometimes bring me down. I really have to decompress after being with them and getting my mind back in order. I think I heard something once that your personality is sort of a composite of the 5 or 6 people you spend most of your time with....so that's something to think about! :) Have a gread day!
Good for you girly! i've also recently made a decision to do the same... and funny enough, contentment and inspiration came along with it. :) Do something everyday, even if it's just little, that gives you joy. Keep a journal of positive quotes or sayings or little bits of things you're thankful for. :) There are a few ideas!
Watch less ID - omgosh! i loooove that channel!
I heard ya lady! I am a pessimistic person by nature who struggles to be an optimistic person.
three cheers for positivity! at the end of each day, i mentally list 5 things i'm grateful for in my life. on bad days, the things may be as simple as seeing my husband walk through the door. but it always reminds me how blessed i am!
First off.. love the new design!
And on being positive, I struggle with this all the time. I'm really good at being a pessimist but I've gotten a lot better. It just takes little reminders each day :)
I love your new design!! :) I struggle every day with staying positive & trying to better myself but I think you have some good goals/reminders on how to stay positive!! You will do great.
xoxo
jessica
http://ajgardner1013.blogspot.com/
Way to go! A positive person is way more fun to be around than a negative one. I like the outfit picture by the way.
Yay!! Your design is lovely. And all of these ideas are wonderful. Spending time journaling what I'm thankful for is one of the biggest ways I have changed my attitudes in times of negativity!
Hey lady! Love this post! I always love reading about postive changes that people are making, because it inspires me to keep on truckin' I especially have found that reading positive quotes on a daily basis are good for the mind and soul! (I use Pinterest as my source) And also, just getting out of the house sometimes really helps too! Taking morning walks, or even going to the gym! :) Keep it up!
I know what you mean! Somedays i get so negative beacise I'm back at home instead off on my own. Colton helps me stay positive and I started going on jogs which is good me time. Anddd Caleb and Hannah are my FAVORITE pll liars couple.
My motto in life is "Rainbows and butterflies." People tend to call me naive, but I just prefer to see the positive in situations. IT IS NOT EASY, but instead of looking at the situation as a challenge or negative thing, it slowly can become a habit to smile your way through things and find out what lesson or blessing can come from things. If its raining, instead of being negative, you throw the pillows on the floor and have a dance party with your daughter. The oven is broken, you have silly supper for dinner and have cereal. Life is full of challenges or obsticals every day, but instead of focusing on those, focus on whats important and how to make the best out of life. Life is a marathon and its your choice how you want to run it!
I love the new design, gorgeous!
One thing I've realized in my life, is whatever you pay attention to grows. Paying attention to the good things make you happier. Although sometimes it's easier said than done.
I LOVE reading too. In fact, this is reminding me that i have a great book I need to get to right now :) Off I go!
This year (school year) I have become a totally new person. I have gone through a change from a somewhat negative taking life too seriously type of girl to a careless positive love everything I do in life kind of girl. I started doing a lot of things on my own and signing up for things I normally wouldn't do. My advice for you... surround yourself with all the positive things in life. Look up and see how vast the sky is. That always reminds me of how big the world is and how there are problems bigger than mine and that I should not fret because it will all fall into place eventually.
Love the new design and yay for becoming more positive! I just always try to find the positive in everything - even in the little negative things in life, you can usually find one little positive to it. I try to always smile, even when I don't feel like smiling, because smiling makes others around you smile, which in turn turns your fake smile into a real one! And limit the time you spend with negative people.
I really like the new bog design, and the tagline! It reminds me of sherbet. :)
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